Joy Wasted with KB Dickey

Today, let’s dive into a topic that’s been lingering in the air like that awkward silence after a bad joke. Yeah, we’re talking about the buzzword of the century – cutting people off. Everyone seems to be flaunting their “I don’t need that negativity” badges like it’s a fashion statement, but you know what? Not many spill the tea on the emotional rollercoaster that follows.

So, picture this: you’ve decided it’s time to Iyanla Vanzant, Fix Your Life and declutter the human relationships that no longer spark joy. It sounds empowering, right? Well, it is, but let’s not pretend it’s all rainbows and sunshine. No one talks about the heavy heart and the little ache when you hit that “unfriend” button, or worse, when you have that uncomfortable conversation.

Sure, we throw around phrases like “cutting toxic ties” and “closing chapters,” but can we just take a moment to acknowledge the grief that tags along? It’s like saying goodbye to a worn-out pair of sneakers. Yeah, they had holes, but man, they were comfortable.

And let’s not forget the societal pressure. “Oh, you cut them off? Must be nice to live in your ivory tower of emotional detachment.” But the truth is, it’s rarely about detachment and more about survival. It’s about choosing your sanity over the chaos, your peace over the drama.

Now, add a sprinkle of spiritual turmoil into the mix. You find yourself wondering, “What would Jesus do?” Second-guessing whether God would want you to take this step. It’s like a tug of war between your need for peace and the desire to follow a higher calling. You start to question if this decision aligns with your spiritual values, and that internal conflict adds another layer to the already complex process.

There’s this unspoken myth that cutting someone off should feel liberating from the get-go. Well, spoiler alert: it often doesn’t. It’s a process, a journey, and sometimes it stings. You question if you did the right thing, if there was another way, if you could have salvaged something. It’s like breaking up with a friend or a significant other – messy, emotional, and leaves you with a mix of relief and a dash of sorrow.

So, to everyone out there navigating the bumpy road of cutting ties, here’s a virtual hug and a high five. It’s okay to feel the weight of it, to acknowledge the grief, and to give yourself the time and grace to heal. You’re not heartless for choosing your well-being; you’re human.

Remember, growth often comes with a side of discomfort. So, here’s to the brave souls standing firm on decisions that are necessary, not easy. Keep shining, keep growing, and heck, keep it real.

Joy Junkie!