Joy Wasted with KB Dickey

Let’s talk about discernment for a second. You know, that inner voice that says, “Hey, is this really worth your energy?” Sometimes, it’s not about having all the answers—it’s about knowing when to engage and when to walk away. You see, life will throw battles at you left and right, but here’s the kicker: not every battle is yours to fight. You can’t go to war over every disagreement, every misunderstanding, or every obstacle that pops up. If you do, you’ll end up exhausted, emotionally spent, and with nothing left to give to the things that actually matter.

Discernment is like having a finely tuned radar for drama. It lets you spot the nonsense from a mile away. That’s where peace comes in—because the more battles you choose not to fight, the more peace you protect in your life. So, how do you develop that skill? It’s about getting real with yourself. Ask yourself, “Is this battle going to push me closer to my purpose, or is it just noise?” If it’s noise, let it go. Silence can be your greatest weapon, and walking away doesn’t make you weak—it makes you wise.

Think of it this way: you only have so much energy in a day. Why waste it on something that won’t matter tomorrow, next week, or next year? Choosing your battles wisely means choosing yourself. It’s about having the confidence to say, “Nope, not today,” and move on with your peace intact.

I’ve had my share of moments where I could’ve gone off, thrown shade, or spent hours stewing over someone else’s mess. But let me tell you, nothing beats the feeling of staying cool, calm, and collected while others are scrambling to create chaos. That’s power. That’s discernment.

Here’s the thing—your peace is priceless. Protect it like your life depends on it because, in a way, it does. Not everything needs your reaction, and not every issue needs to be addressed by you. Sometimes, you’ve just got to sit back, watch things unfold, and trust that silence speaks louder than words.

At the end of the day, discernment is about knowing yourself and your worth. It’s about saying, “I don’t have to fight this one because I’m secure enough in myself to let it go.” So, pick your battles, preserve your peace, and stay focused on what really matters. You got this!

Joy Junkie!