Joy Wasted with KB Dickey

If success came easy, everybody would have it. It’s easy to dream big and set goals, but when the rubber meets the road and obstacles start piling up, that’s where many people throw in the towel.

Why? Because sticking around when things get hard isn’t glamorous. It’s not Insta-worthy, it’s not exciting, and it often feels downright uncomfortable. But guess what? Staying power—the ability to hold on, stay focused, and keep going—can be the difference between a breakthrough and a breakdown. And sometimes you feel like the breakdown is inevitable.

The Reality of the Grind

Here’s the truth: There are no shortcuts to real success. Whatever you’re trying to achieve—whether it’s building a business, earning a degree, or getting in the best shape of your life—there will be moments when quitting feels easier than continuing.

You’ll face setbacks. You’ll wonder if it’s worth it. And you’ll see people around you take the easy route while you’re still in the trenches, pushing through.

But here’s the thing: Most people quit too soon. They leave just before the magic happens, not realizing that every failure, every delay, and every tough moment is shaping them into the person who can handle the success they’re working toward.

What to Do When It’s Hard

So what do you do when achieving isn’t easy? You dig deep and lean into these strategies:

1. Revisit Your “Why”
   When the going gets tough, go back to your reason for starting. What made you set this goal in the first place? Visualize what success looks like for you and remind yourself why the hard work is worth it.
2. Break It Down
   Big goals can feel overwhelming. Instead of focusing on how far you still have to go, break your journey into smaller, manageable steps. Celebrate the small wins along the way—they’ll give you the momentum to keep moving forward.
3. Find the Lesson in the Struggle
   Challenges are life’s best teachers. When you hit a roadblock, ask yourself: What is this moment teaching me? Growth happens when you embrace the lessons hidden in the difficulties.
4. Get Comfortable with the “Messy Middle”
   Progress isn’t linear. There will be days when you’re on fire and others when it feels like you’re moving backward. That’s normal. Don’t let temporary feelings derail permanent goals.
5. Surround Yourself with the Right People
   Your circle matters. Stay close to people who encourage you, hold you accountable, and remind you of your potential. If you’re surrounded by negativity, it’s time to make some changes.
6. Take Breaks, But Don’t Quit
   Burnout is real, so take time to rest and recharge when needed. But resting isn’t quitting. It’s okay to slow down; just don’t stop.

Stay Long Enough to Win

Think about all the stories you’ve heard of people who made it big. Almost all of them have one thing in common: They stuck it out when it would’ve been easier to walk away.

Success doesn’t reward the fastest or the most talented—it rewards those who refuse to give up. If you’re willing to stay in the game when others bow out, you’re already ahead.

So the next time achieving feels hard, remember this: The struggle is temporary, but the reward is lasting. Keep going. Your breakthrough is closer than you think.

What are you sticking with right now, even when it feels tough? Share in the comments—I’d love to hear about your journey.

Joy Junkie!