Joy Wasted with KB Dickey

Hey there, life can be a real whirlwind, can’t it? It’s like a never-ending marathon, and sometimes it feels like you’re stuck in a circus, juggling flaming torches. But here’s the deal: there are moments when it all becomes a bit too much, and you’re left feeling like you’ve been run over by a freight train. It’s like the world’s weight has decided to set up camp right on your shoulders, and you’re wondering if help is ever going to make an appearance. I’ve been there, and trust me, I get it. So, let’s tackle this emotional rollercoaster together, with a sprinkle of seriousness and a dash of humor, and find some inspiration in Scripture along the way.

Recognizing the “Soul Marathon”

You know you’re knee-deep in the “soul marathon” when you start your day resembling a zombie before that first cup of coffee. But seriously, here are the signs that you’re running on fumes:

• Motivation MIA: Remember when you were the go-getter type? Now, even making a sandwich feels like an Olympic feat.
• Captain Cranky Pants: Small stuff, like someone leaving the toilet seat up, sends you into a mini rage.
• Memory Game Fail: Keys? Names? Birthdays? It’s all one big blur.
• Body Blues: Headaches, stiff muscles, and sleep patterns resembling a vampire’s.

The Pressure Cooker Paradox: Keep Cool or Explode

Life’s pressure cooker can sometimes feel like a sitcom where you’re the star, and the audience just pelted you with tomatoes. The pressure keeps rising, and you wonder why it seems like you’re the only one trying to hold down the lid. You ever wonder if help is even on the menu?

A Personal Story: Embracing Chapter 44 and New Responsibilities

As I recently celebrated my 44th birthday on October 12th, 2023, I couldn’t help but reflect on this new chapter of life. It’s Chapter 44, and it’s filled with hope, but it also brings a whole lot of other emotions. You see, I’m now one year older than when I lost my only sibling. That’s a heavy thought.

Now, I’ve found myself in this new role in the family, almost like the “ace in the hole.” I’m now the one carrying the torch for my family’s next generation. It’s like the rise and fall of the next generation rests on my shoulders. The expectations are sky-high. I’ve got to win, and not just win, but win big. I’ve got to achieve, and not just achieve, but achieve big.

These thoughts have become the main playlist in my head. I’m constantly wondering how to make it all work when I’m already feeling the exhaustion creeping in. It’s a question that many of us face at some point in life – how to carry the weight of responsibilities, especially when you’re already mentally worn out.

Finding Strength in Faith: Scripture for Encouragement

In moments of overwhelming pressure and exhaustion, finding comfort and inspiration in Scripture can be a game-changer. Here are some verses that have been my source of strength:

1. Isaiah 40:31 (NIV): “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”
2. Matthew 11:28 (NIV): “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
3. Philippians 4:13 (NIV): “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.”

Navigating Life’s Rollercoaster: Finding the Right Balance

In the middle of this “soul marathon,” remember that you’re not alone. Reach out to friends, family, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Set realistic expectations, take time for self-care, and remember it’s okay to seek professional help when you need it.

Life is indeed a marathon, but you’ve got the endurance to finish it. With faith as your guide, a good dose of humor, and the knowledge that you’re not alone on this wild ride, you can weather the storm. Finding peace and balance is possible, even with overwhelming responsibilities. Trust that you’re not in this marathon of life alone. Remember, you’ve got what it takes!